Becoming Her provides trauma-informed, psychology-backed coaching for ambitious women who want to better understand their emotions, outgrow old patterns, and transform the way they show up in their relationships and their lives.
Does This Sound Like You?
• You’ve done “the work,” but certain emotional patterns still show up in your relationships.
• You can be self-aware in hindsight, but struggle to navigate your emotions in the moment.
• You’re ambitious and high-achieving, but your inner world feels more chaotic than you’d like to admit.
• You understand psychology, but applying it to your own life feels confusing or inconsistent.
• You’re tired of attracting the same dynamics, the same arguments, and the same emotional cycles.
• You want healthier relationships — but you know it starts with your emotional intelligence.
What's Possible For You...
Knowing exactly why you react the way you do — and being able to shift it in real time.
Walking into relationships without the old baggage, patterns, or emotional landmines.
Choosing people and situations that actually match your standards — not your wounds.
Trusting yourself so deeply that your decisions finally align with the woman you want to be.
That’s what emotional intelligence makes possible.
This is where your entire life starts to upgrade.
THE BECOMING HER SELF-MASTERY METHOD™
This is my proprietary, psychology-driven, neuroscience-supported framework designed to help ambitious women elevate their emotional intelligence, break long-standing patterns, and lead themselves with clarity and confidence.
Here are the pillars that guide our work together:
1. Emotional Intelligence Expansion
You’ll learn to understand your emotions, resolve inner conflict, and communicate with clarity—starting in small moments, then ultimately throughout your relationships and your life.
2. Pattern Identification & Breakthrough
You’ll identify the unconscious emotional patterns and root causes keeping you stuck. Then you’ll learn how to shift them with precision, awareness, and intention.
3. Mindset Rewiring Based on Psychology & Neuroscience
You’ll learn how to master your mind through integrative, science-backed techniques that build self-trust, strengthen self-awareness, and create real, lasting change.
4. Trauma-Informed Self-Leadership
Everything is grounded in trauma-informed principles, so you can grow into the most emotionally intelligent, self-led, and aligned version of yourself.
Integration is the most important part of this work—
and it’s where you finally step into the woman you’re meant to become.
Work With Me
You can begin this work in two different ways — depending on how deep you’re ready to go and what level of support you need.
The Becoming HER Inner Shift Intensive
A 90-minute, one-on-one session designed to create immediate clarity and a powerful emotional or mindset breakthrough.
Inside this intensive, you will:
• Get a deep dive into one specific issue, pattern, emotional block, or relationship dynamic
• Understand why it’s happening internally and what it’s connected to
• Receive psychologically-informed, science-backed tools that fit YOUR situation
• Walk away with a clear, personalized plan you can apply immediately
• Experience a shift that changes how you think, feel, and respond
Perfect for you if:
You’re stuck in a loop, overwhelmed by one issue, or craving a targeted, fast transformation.
The Becoming HER Self-Mastery Program
A 12-week premium coaching program for women ready to elevate their emotional intelligence, break their deepest patterns, and step fully into the woman they’re becoming.
Inside this experience, you will:
• Strengthen your emotional intelligence from the inside out
• Identify and break long-standing patterns
• Rewire your thoughts using psychology & neuroscience
• Build self-trust, clarity, and inner leadership
• Create healthier, aligned relationship dynamics
• Develop the tools of emotional maturity & long-term self-mastery
Perfect for you if:
You’re ready for deep transformation, real accountability, and an entirely new internal operating system.
Fit Call
Not sure which path is right for you? Schedule a FREE 10 min. Fit Call
A brief, high-touch conversation designed to identify your best path forward.
During this 10-minute call, we will:
• discuss your goals and what brought you here
• evaluate your readiness for deeper self-mastery work
• determine which offer aligns with your emotional and personal growth needs
• confirm we’re a strong match for this level of transformation
This call is not a coaching session, it is a concise, intentional conversation meant to ensure you receive the support that fits your journey.
Meet Your Coach
I’m Elyssa — and my work began long before I ever called myself a coach.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been trying to understand people — their emotions, their reactions, their patterns… and eventually, my own. I grew up navigating trauma, complex dynamics, and environments that forced me to become self-aware long before I had the language for it. I learned how to read people, anticipate emotional storms, and carry weight I shouldn’t have had to carry.
For years, I thought being “strong” meant surviving it all without breaking.
But survival isn’t the same thing as self-mastery.
As an adult, I found myself repeating relationship patterns I didn’t want, choosing situations that didn’t reflect my worth, and reacting from old wounds I thought I had already outgrown. I knew why I was doing it — I just didn’t know how to change it.
That pushed me into psychology, developmental science, attachment theory, and eventually trauma-informed work. I got my degree in Education with a minor in Developmental Psychology, spent over a decade studying human behavior in real-world settings, and then spent years unlearning and rebuilding myself from the inside out.
The work I teach now?
I had to live it first.
Today, I help ambitious women deepen their emotional intelligence, break their long-standing patterns, and finally understand themselves in a way that changes everything. My coaching blends science-backed insight with grounded, no-BS guidance — the exact combination I needed on my own healing journey.
I don’t believe in fixing women.
I believe in helping them become who they were always meant to be.
This is the Becoming Her journey
It's Time To Become HER Not Someday... Today!
You don't have to keep repeating the same patterns.
You don't have to navigate your inner world alone.
If you're ready to understand yourself on a much deeper level, I'm here to guide you through the work that actually changes your life.
Your self-mastery starts here.
Start Your Becoming HER Self-Mastery Journey Today!